Let’s see, I am thirty five years old. In that time frame I can think of about 3 relationships that I can honestly say I was truly in love. They have all since failed…lol… I can say that after looking at all of them in retrospect, I had a lot to do with the failures. What you might ask, was my major screw up.. It’s simple; I failed to truly let myself connect. You, think, wow I can’t believe he is being this open on a public blog. Why not, we all suffer from the same problem. Ask yourself, how many relationships have you been in that have failed. Now how many did you play a part in that failure in some way shape or form. I know that everyone has a fault because in order to have a relationship two people have to come together as one unit. It doesn’t mean that you have to change yourself, but you do have to bend on a lot of things. When something bends it becomes weak in that spot. Just like people, when we make a change in the way we respond to a situation for example we feel vulnerable. When we are in a relationship and have to bend in a lot of areas for the good of that relationship we also feel at risk. Immediately it's, I am changing who I am, hell no. Who does this person think they are this is me if he/she doesn’t like it than I will move on… blah blah blah. Or we take it to the other extreme, “I am so tired of being alone that yes this person is not a match but it’s better than being alone. “ The part of relationships that really gets me irritated is when it gets puts into a box. The whole rules of relationship are solely created for self protection. Everyone that I know has had to have the dreaded past conversation. Why in the hell does that matter, it’s this simple it’s the past. What good comes out of knowing the person you are trying to be with is a past slut or saint. Look at people who are in a good relationship that you know. The best examples are people who make it 30 and 40 years of marriage. Talk to any of them. I guarantee that what you will hear most is don’t sweat the small stuff. I think that now love gets thrown around too much. When my kids do something well and I am so proud of them that I enjoy it more than they do… That’s love. I love my cat; does that mean we are having a relationship? I love my truck; I have no plans on having sex with it. We have relationships with friends where love is there. Ultimately Love, in regards to relationship, is a decision to allow someone to see the true you. It is a feeling like nothing you can do will change this person’s strong feelings about you, within reason. There are certain “rules of relationship” that have to be followed for example: cheating, lying, ECT. My take, only when we stop putting things into a box of protection will we ever find to true meaning of what LOVE is. My kids and I have a loving unconditional relationship, why because I let them be them. Yes I have to discipline them, but that’s being a parent. If you can’t let a person be themselves then you’re not in love. Relationships fail because people jump into them to soon or don’t get out of them when they should. A diamond starts out as coal first before it’s a diamond.
Being single sucks! I hate it, I'm sure anyone out there who is single will agree. I HATE it. I mean, it's not like I don't try or that people don't like me. It's just...I don't know! And I should probably point out that there aren't many open and single gay men in Jackson, Ohio! I will try to keep my hopes up but it's so damn hard. When I hang out with friends I'm happy and sad at the same time. Happy because I'm hangin with friends (Duh!), but sad because they have boyfriends/girlfriends. I know it's wrong to be jelous, but I can't help it! Sorry for the rant, I just had to vent! LOL Thanks for listening...love you!
Here r the 4 things that teens should not do whle they r in school; SMOKING--It really isn't that big of a deal to smoke. It makes ur clothes and breath stink and when u kiss some one that smokes it tast terrible. Smoking does not make u cool, popular or hip. it just makes u smell. besides the cost of smoking is way too high. then there is the cancer u might get and bronkidis... so if u think about smoking .........dont. ALCOHAL OR DRINKING----This is something that is illegal for teens to do anyway ,but they find a way to do it. this also does not make u popular , cool , or hip , it just make u do and say stupid things. if u get caught drinking and driving u go to JAIL , thats if u dont kill someone or urself first.if u want to party then party just leave that alcohal to the grown ups. dont worry u will be an adult when ur 21. DRUGS-----now if u even think about doin this then ur really stupid. drugs is somthing that I dont even do. this has the same reason that smoking and drinking has, but this is much worse. doing drugs makes u do things that ur not even aware of and its many times worse than drinking. drugs r also illegale and can be laced to kill u if u get the wrong stuff. ur best bet is dont try drugs to begin with. its stupid, and dangerous. SEX----now this topic is very touchy to some peaple. if ur boy or girl friend really loves u then that person can wait till u get out of school till u have sex. reason is that the protection u get is not always 100% fullproff. if u get a girl pregnant , she will most likely drop out and get a part time job to suport her child cause most parents have a busy lives of there own . they dont have time to take care of a grandchild. all i am saying is if ur pressered into haveing sex tell that person " look if u really love me then lets wait till we graduate". and if that other person says no i cant wait then u dont need him or her . cause if u get pregnant....he just might bail on u and leave u holding the child alone. now think about what kind of future u want for urself......then add a baby in the mix before u graduate and see how it works in ur plans. simply put keep ur pants and ur grades up!! Those r the 4 things teens should not do while they r in school . If u as a teen r confused about anything on this blog talk to ur parents or ur guidance counselor, they can help.
On Thursday i got into a disageement with some people. i had been tld some information and was trying to get my facts straight but it didnt work out that way. b/c of me and what i have done i lost some valuable friends. Life is never about trying to hurt people nor is it about fun and games. its about living life to the fullest. we do things in life that we dont mean to do and when we do them it upsets people. but we as humans need to learn from our mistakes and build on them to make our lives more valuable.
Hello everyone, not sure this is the place to put this but oh well. We are a couple male and female we are married. Dont ask ASL it will all be here and if you dont have the time to read it then we dont have the time for you. I am a 42 yo white bi married female, Hubby is a 47 yo white str8 male, we have many interests that vary from normal to erotic, looking mainly for me an just me a female friend but hubby has warned me there will be others if right. Since I have been burned before Hubby will verify all responses if thats a problem then have a good day an keep going. We will not talk about personal family or location here, Hubby is a real Long Haul Truck Driver so when we say we travel thats what we do. Look for mainly female in my age range dont have time for fakes or games looking for someone with same taste, we enjoy many hobbies an sports and having a good time.
so. because of some past decisions, i don't really have any friends. I used to have many, But because i got drunk one night it all changed... I still do have friends. Best friends that willalways be there for me. just not the same ones i had... I love them to death. But some advice....If you want to be a friend, and a good one at that, never hate someone when they don't even remember that happened....just always be there for them.
Thats my advice of the day!
Enjoy!!!
The trust of a child, there is no end, to teach them right, to be their friend. You give them hope, you teach them to pray, mistakes you've made, keep them away. Give them your time, give them their space, when they step out of line, gently put them in place. Everything you do, everywhere you go, when no one is watching, that child it knows. Each broken promise, everything you say, they keep it inside, day to day. The things that go wrong, as the years go by, They often wonder, but they wont ask you why. A child is so fragile, so innocent and pure, you must provide them, the strength to endure. This life it's not easy, it can beat you down, when on you they call, can you be found? Don't fail this child, it's your love that will show, that you have taught them well, when you let them go. A child’s eyes, when they look at you, the pain you carry, they see right through. If you look you can see, that fire inside, they carry you with them, in a child's eyes...
Do you love to be taken by force and pounded rough, do you love to be called the nasty whore slut you are as you suck my hard cock, or as you are riding a nice hard 8'' thick cock ramp in side of you, and love having your ass spanked . I can tell that you like it from the backside and having your hair pulled with me asking you if you like it harder and faster, and I know that you love dressing like a nasty girl coming to bed in your black nylons. Have you been craving a nice hard long, tick and fat cock to suck on and crave to be filled with a strangers hot load of cum, I am your ' 'BOY TOY'' so i can take care of that wet spot that you are feeling... I can go multiple rounds, and I'm not no minute-man either. I'm into pulling your hair, spanking , choking, light pain, light bondage, anything else you might be able to think up or would like me to do for you my Queen. I'm up for a NSA one nighter or a fun NSA fuck buddy that knows what I'm doing. I am very fit, sexy, and handsome. I know exactly how to please a woman. If you are a sexy Lady that what's to have fun hit me up. If you are in to have threesome , and would love to try it with a friend for the first time she will love it because I will run the show and tell your female friend, what to do to you as I bang you from the backas she goes hard, and down on your lip's. I amit to watching also and coming in from the side when you are about to cum I will have the two of you at a 69 way and I will go from the front and the back if youi know what I am thinking.
I am sick and tired of people coming up to me and telling me how to run my life. Im not a little kid, I can do what I want. I don't need a fucking keeper to tellme what i can and can't do. FUck it. I am me. Thats it.
This is the new me. The one who doesn't give a FUCK if i don't have friends because of past decisions. I live my life the way I want to.
Thats it.
you know you have been stalkign me for over 8 years isure hope your haven fun keep it up and i am sure the fun will end for you . You have no regards for any law. you seam to think your above the law dur to the fack your steap dad was a small town cop. it seams to me maby you best watch out your steap dad your failed to keep you from looseing your 3 kids . i asked you many time why you tould me it was all b/s i know for a fact that no state takes teh kids away from the mom with out good reason not only did the state take your kids away the was adopted . from wha ti managed to finde out you was abuseing drugs and thr booze. you know what your doing is worrng and aganst the law oather wise you woudl not have to pretend to be someone that you are not you have stolen pitchers from web sights and pretended you are that person you have lyed to oather people jsut to try to make me look bad well i have had enough i am not longer going to run i have done nothing wornt to no one or you . you are teh moast hatefull person i have ever seen and probaly ever will the hatred runs throught your veins like blood. tis time to grow up i will never ever take you back for any reason get out of my life and leve me alone
hello friends u know me , if u dnt know i will introduce my self i am david a young man from south india, i am from amiddle class family , who once wished for a new wrld fr me , like new byke , computer, a girlfriend, a new home and as i want all these i ,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,remaining stry i will tell u later my friends cauz here so raining , and fr last 6 months no rain here in my village ,,,,,,,,,,,i am going to smell the fragrance of earth in rain ,,,,,,,,its so pleasing u can try with me if u wish come my friends ,,,i will get u here with me ,,,bye
well this is andrew im am writing this from washington three days before i move to northern california it really sux i have two beautiful kids and a beautiful ol'ladie and im gonna miss them so much. the reason im moving is because my job transfered me. I love my job and i dedicate my life to my job and my family. well i dont know what else to write to day but i will wright more tomarrow. good by washington and good night world.
you know its been going on 10 years. and your still dogging me .You must be so dumb to think i dotn know who you are or what your doing. Well dotn be so dumb to think i can not or will not so any thing about it. why dont you go away you no judge my life judge will be my maker and not you . You have done nothing but cause trouble every whear you have gone for every one you know . you can not hould a job or suport your self you depend on you mom and the money yoru granny left you. you lye to me and every one that knows me you knwo what yoru doing is worng because you hide behinde phone nick and names. Butt out of my life!!!!!
hello i guess i am writing this because i have given so much, i have no faith to give any more i have given my love to one woman for 22 years just for her one day to say it is over no more ever since that day my life has been complete and total misery i cannot find love anywhere i am not a hideous looking man i am 6' tall i weigh in at 195 lbs i have six pack abs i like to have fun i spend money on everyone but still no one seems to look twice at me before i married what i thought was the woman of my life i could have had any number of women. but now i cant get a date if i wanted i have moved to a different town where no one new me and they call me arrogant why what did i do to you. i met a nice lady and asked her out on a date she said yeah right i am getting older now i have been single for over ten years all i want is a kind trustful and honest lady to settle my life down with. i dont want to leave this world as a single man i dont want to finnish my life being lonely i would love to share my life with someone i have alot to give and alot to leave someone but maybe it is time to accept the cold hard facts that maybe i was not meant to be with anyone. i have never intentionally hurt anyone and of i ever did i said i was sorry.I am an honest one woman man and i pray to the good lord that maybe before my time is up in this world someone will find me and give me the love i want to give them. but i am ready to give it up. I dont want to be alone anymore lonliness is not a good place to be i just want to be happy and content as my days draw to a close. for every day that goes by my heart grows smaller in size and what a pity full way to die
I wanted to make this to tell anyone who was lookin at me what exactly I want in a man. To say sorry in advance, I can't spell very well so I apologise now. (see, told you) Anyway, the kind of guy I'm into.Well, the perfect man for me is not based on looks really, but on personality. I mean, I want him to look good, but he doesen't have to be drop-dead sexy! I want him to be like me, funy, vharming and nice. He can't be a dick or want me to show myself on a web-cam, thats a hint for everybody. He has to be nice to everyone, not just me. I may sound like a woman, but i want him to love me, not my ass. I really don't like to hook up over the net, but what the hell. If he's nice and is funny I'll try!
hey everyone just joined this. sorry about the pic i prefer to remain discreet. if you would like a pic just let me know if can see you you can see me. so i hope to here from some one soon.
to all my friends i have met it has been great especialy you red just foumd outi have lymphoma so dont know how long il be around you guys and girls are the best
I wonder what happened to the authentic people the ones that don't do things by the book. Why everyone seems to be a clone of the previous. I'd like to find originality and people who challenge me. Is it so hard to be different? I don't need to do what everyone else does to be happy so why does everyone else? Give me a pool table or a golf course on a day off I'm ecstatic...although this does sound a lot like every guy but really, isn't it better then being a player or a bar hound? You're more likely to find me at a book store then a bar. Oh well, this world is going to shit and the only thing left to do is live by your own rules. Taking moral judgment and laws into consideration of course. Hopefully I can find similar people or at least people who try to be different.
Well, my pair of Turtleframed Clubmasters have FINALLY arrived. I've been wearing them for a few days and I gotta' say that retro is so goddamn cool... ...now...I've tried to post a pic, but we'll see how that plays out...and if it works, then I AM God!! Otherwise, I'm just a schmuck who can't work that computer thingy. Any woman who things to big bug eye sunglasses are actually cool...are FUCKING FOOLING THEMSELVES. We're laughing at you....out loud...with a megaphone. One of the hottest women I've seen in the last few weeks was wearing a pair of Bolle' sunglasses that were so damn hot that it was a test of wills to keep from jumping her bones...she had a pistol in her hand, so I was trying to be cool...no fun getting shot by a chick. Ray Bans. You can't go wrong with the classics. I want a pair of Wayfairers, but the bridge of my nose is wide enough to rate it's own ZIP code, so they won't work too well. Clubmasters, on the other hand, are fucking cool as all get out, for those of us poor bastards that don't have a narrow WASP-y nose. My Dad would look good in Wayfareres...me...not so much. Any chicks who want some sunglasses consulting...send me a message...I'll keep you from looking like a dumbass. seekingteacher
i dont know what to do. mmy bestfriend of 8 yrs now got a bf and he is a complete ass to her and me. and sthay havnt even been together for 2 wks and she is startin to choose him over me. and it hurts. she is that only one that i have to actually turn to. i dont know what to do. what do i say to her?
Hey all you couples out there! Just thought we would drop in to take a quick look at this site and SEE whats out there. Hope to find a few EXTROVERTS, if you know what I mean :-) Well, like my profile sez, just taking a quick look around to C whats up, write back if you have good things to say about the site! B talking and chattin with you soon!
That is just amazing! The video info said that Val Thomas had 3 heart attacks and no brain waves for over 17 hours!!! Rigor Mortis had started to set in and when the nurses were pulling tubes out, she woke up! I don't get shocked by a lot, but that is some crazy shit right there. If I ever "die", make sure I'm really dead and point the doctors to this video. lol
i walked down the street the other day and seen this gawjuice guy. he seen me so we started talking when he leans in my ear and whispers to me "lets fuck in the toilet". so me being horny said "yes" so b4 u no it he was 9" deep in my throat with 2" to go. i thought to my self maybe i have bitten of more than i can chew. so after another two min hebends me ove r and fucks the living shit out of me. i said to him u better cum at the same time as me. he replies with " are you ready. so we came together. i was thinkin of a certin guy wilst coming u no who you are....
Oh... ...my... ...God! This is the nectar of the gods! Even the bottle looks good. Bacardi and Mount Gay were making vanilla rum a couple of years ago, then quit. Bacardi just stopped making it and it's not to be found in the U.S. Mount Gay, on the other hand, not only makes a MUCH better vanilla rum, but they're STILL making it but not importing it into the U.S. Bastards. But thank GOD for the internet. I found an internet booze shack that not only stocks Mount Gay vanilla rum, but will ship it to my house! Every day is Christmas!! It even smells good. It's damn liquid candy. God bless the internet. And I'm going to be a sunofabitch and not even tell you where I found it so I can keep the hoard to myself. But to be fair, I'll be happy to mix the most delicous vanilla rum and coke you'll ever have. Later! seekingteacher
Well, in the past couple of days, I watched both movies by Quentin Tarantino. Now...I thought both were "cool" movies, but it seemed to me that Tarantino would get wrapped up too much in his homage scenes that he loses track of what he wants to do in the movie. He still pulls it off...and this is how I think he does it... ...he finds "cool" actors and actresses. That is the theme that I think Tarantino succeeds at...making "cool" movies. I have been lamenting lately that there are no "cool" actors anymore. Most, if not all, American leading male actors are borderline nancy boys. The modern version of 3:10 To Yuma had to use a Brit (Christian Bale) and an Aussie (Russel Crowe) for the leads!! Apparently there are no American male actors that are cool enough to be cowboys anymore...which I find to be a sad state of affairs. But Tarantino and his buddy Robert Rodriguez make "cool" movies and get "cool" actors to be in them, which I don't think his happening much anymore. Where's Steve McQueen and Lee Marvin when you need them? Later!
I just dont know how much more i can take. I'm through with this bull shit and I want to leave. I put myself in a position that I cant get out of. What should I do when all the trust is gone?
Well it's mushroom huntin time again so I think sometime this week I'm gonna grab the old ak-47 and see if I can't bag me a mushroom or two. Last year I found a few but like a dummy I put them in a bowl of salt water and put them in the fridge, but didn't take them out for a few months lol. I like finding them more than I like cooking them. When I was little my grandma used to take me mushroom huntin and I used to believe that you had to be really quiet and sneak up on them otherwise they would pop back into the ground before you could get them. Looking back I think it may have been a way of my grandma keeping me quiet. I tested this theory last year and in fact the mushrooms did not pop back under ground when I made noise. Any other mushroom hunters out there? If so let me know where you're from and how many pounds you find.
My thoughts racing like Light filling my head, Thoughs containing many facts and numbers of dread.
lies and betrayal are at every turn, I see in your eyes I know you will burn.
I read your body and i read your mind, i read your words my god you are so blind.
You think you can con you think you can rob, what a dumbass you stupid slob, you think you can use me you think you can stall, how stupid of you I hope you Fall.
Why is it you people think your so smart, when it is I who have played you all from the start.
You try to pretend to get what you can from me, but I get what I want from you in reality.
I take no shit from any of you, so in truth if you don't like me I say adios and goodbye to you.
I am who i am, and I will change for nobody, i will not ever alter my own personality.
you wanna change me so you can easily break me, but i'm sorry to tell you your needs and wants escape me.
in the end all i truly know, is that one day soon I'll be the one who's in control...
you try to control what I think and what I ultimatly feel, i'm sorry to disappoint you but i'm not attached to a steering wheel.
No matter the outcome of things that may happen to me in my life, You all will be bickering about your problem filled Strife.
I'm sick of fucking Drama and all the bullshit people involve me in, so go away in peace and commit your sin.
You act like you are the only ones who suffer, how about you go 31 years without the love of your Mother.
you whine about the problems you have with you families, well guess what be greatful and shut up at least you have Families.
people cry about their bullshit top friends list here on myspace, get over yourselves it's the net, you pay nothing for this place.
You care for nobody but yourselves, your conceited, self-centered and uttely greedy and materialistic, so how about you try to give that shit up and be a bit more simplistic.
I don't apologize for what i say and do because it's who i am and what I do, if you don't like what is that i write that you read, i don't care because this is what you need to see to believe.
All i have to say at this point is all you dope hats need to rethink your shit before smoking that joint.
you people think all life is just a party, well wake the hell up and smell the coffee, one day soon you people will be dead and lifeless and for that I am sorry, but then again you lie cheat and decieve your way through the party that is your life.
many claim to be friends and love you but then again they are just trying to break through your defenses to win you over to fuck you.
you think i'm a negative person that complains all the time, well i got news for you and all those like you, all you fuckers do is whine.
If you don't wanna hear me or what I have to say then kindly forget me and walk the other away.
I am who i am and i change for nobody, no matter what you say I know i am somebody.
I am a good man with a whole lot of things to offer, i give all that i can, even when in return when i'm in need you don't bother.
I always give everything that i have, whether I like it or not, even if the person hurt me alot and deserved to rot.
If carma is in fact a real thing, then i hope someday somehow you feel it's sting.
Don't take me for granted you feeble minded fool, if i had it my way i'd take your ass to school.
To you who think you know me i say to you, if you don't like what you are reading then take a hike i'm done with you. you are a clown, a nothing a foolish bafoon.
I am like a layer who's building a strong case, i hold nothing back so get out of my face.
the majority treat me like i'm disgusting and sleazy but it's all good pissing you off is all too easy.
You try to pretend your all hard and tough, but i got news for you bitch your nothing but a Punk.
my mind is clear and my path is laid out before me, so come on with your trivial lives people you are so dull and boring.
I am me oh can't you see that i'm not a clone all stuck in this fake ass reality.
You people are sheep all eating your hay like a slave, so go on with your robotic drone selves and get the hell away.
You people who are in the scene crowd, with your bling and you glam and your diva ways are nothing but a bunch of Drone-like minded slaves.
The people in this country are greedy and completely ungreatful, meanwhile in small countries people can't even put food on their table.
I hope someday when you all end up with nothing that you can look back and truly be greatful for something.
I've created a new drink just for the ladies. I call it... The Co-Dependant!! ...because it smacks you in the face, then it apologizes to you, so that you'll come back for more. 2oz. good bourbon - something like Woodford Reserve or Knob Creek -- and I'm not kidding...no well booze swill!! 1oz. Triple Sec 1oz. Fresh lemon juice - fresh squeezed is best Chill a martini glass and set aside Fill a beer glass 3/4's the way with ice. This is your mixing glass. Pour into the beer glass with ice, in this order 1. 1 oz. Triple Sec 2. 2oz. Bourbon 3. 1oz. lemon juice Stir, don't shake. Sugar the rim of the martini glass before pouring. Strain the stirred drink into the chilled martini glass and serve straight up. Prepare for a bitch slap and a loving apology. Repeat until the glass is empty or your it's bitch...whichever comes first. Ladies, if you come over to my house and I make this for you, we'll be in bed within the hour...and I'll be much gentler than the cocktail you just finished. Later! Seekingteacher
Well to let everyone no we did make it to Indiana. Oh boy!! ugh. Anyway we just wanted to let everyone no (if u don't already) that we have made it safe and sound. ummmm, well safe anyway. the train trip SUCKED BIG DONKEY DICKS. it was fun at first but then it really started to suck. We was going to be in ILL by 2:15 pm on saturday but nooooooooooooo we got 7 fucking hours behind bc somebody doesn't no how to make a train go foreword... i told them to let me run the damn thing. but anyway.. oh and btw.. Texas SUCKS ASS!! it is to long of a damn state.. cut the damn thing in half would u... anyway so we thought we would let everyone no that we did make it to Indiana but are minds on the other hand are lost in TEXAS.. ok well we hope we get to talk to some of u soon.. we will not have internet for another week or two but we will let u all no... LOVE YA ALL Jay And Brandy
So... As most of you know OohYa has been down since Monday, almost an entire week! Our server upgrade seems to have gone horribly wrong, but at least we have the site back up. We are still on the old server and have just been told today that now it will take another week before they get us upgraded. I have no idea why it is taking so long other than our hosting company is simply incompetent. Most of the trouble stemmed from a check from one of our advertisers being 12 days late, the money from the check was what was to be used for the server upgrade. Our original hosting expired last week but our hosting company said they understood the dilema and that the site would remain up as I didn't want to renew the old plan for another 6 months. Of course the site did not remain up, and then when I paid for the upgrade nobody at the hosting company seemed to know how to get the site back up and on the new plan. After days of calling and emailing several different tech support people, being excalated to several different levels of support, and about pulling my hair out they finally got the site live again. But when I logged in to the server of course I discovered that we were still on the original server! When I called them back to ask them about this is when they told me very casually like it was no big deal, that it will take about 7 days to finish the upgrade lol! 7 more days of waiting when I was originally assured that it was a very simple process that could be done very quickly and without any issues. What a joke! I have several other websites with this same hosting company, many of them over 5 years old. I think that I will be looking into moving all of them to a different company soon.
Hey all, I need your opinion on a couple ideas. Please leave a comment or PM me if you want. Spread the word about this post to other members that might not read the blog entries. I need the feedback. Thanks!! For those of us of the fairer sex (and any guys I guess that want to be funny - lol) we have a choice of the following: Ladies of OohYa Chat Bitches of OohYa Chat Goddesses of OohYa Chat Girls of OohYa Chat A combo of the above Some other idea (and please either comment or PM your idea) For the guys, which I think is most of the member base - lol : Gentlemen of OohYa Chat Pimps of OohYa Chat Mac Daddies of OohYa Chat Boys of OohYa Chat A combo of the above Some other idea (and please either comment or PM your idea) We have some other ideas, too, for different kinds of shirts, keychains, etc., but I wanted your feedback on the above. Please feel free to offer any other ideas, suggestions on things you'd like to see on a t-shirt. We're looking at going with CafePress since they offer a lot of different products. If anyone has any suggestions as to a better way to get things printed, please feel free to PM me or comment below. Obviously, profit from products sold is going into the site, which will only make OohYa Chat better. We'd really like to upgrade to a new server and update a few features so hopefully this will help. lol Thanks!! And see you in chat! Tisha aka "pxfbird" P.S. We will have a MILF shirt since that was asked for in chat. lol
SOMETIMES I DONT'T UNDERSTAND PEOPLE. WHY DO WE ALWAYS HAVE TO BE MEAN TO EACH OTHER. I LOST MY BEST FRIEND B/C A PERSON MADE HER MAD AND SHE AIN'T COMING BACK ON HERE NOW. I LOVED HER TO DEATH AND I ALREADY MISS HER. WE WERE LIKE BROTHER AND SISTER. KELLYPANTS I MISS YOU AND HOPEYOU WIL COME BACK
I've been gone for about 3 weeks. Had a lot of stuff to deal with. On march 12th was my daughters b-day. That was a depressing situation. And a friend of mine was diagnosed with cancer I was about to goto the bar but got on my bike instead and road for about 3 weeks. I just left. I headed west go to sanfrancisco then headed south to mexico. Had to leave there to many temptations. headed back north road the pacific coast hiway. Stop in seattle and decided I needed to head back south. I headed for vegas that was a bore. So I headed to Dallas. Nothing there so I want to new orleans. Then I headed home. gran total 18 days on the road got home and had several phone messages. Friends thought I did something stupid and broke down my door to make sure I wasn't dead. I forgot my cell oh well.
So far this year life has given us many curve balls. The year started out with us losing our car. Then went on to him losing his job, me losing mine, my mom isn't doing good, death, and us moving. They say death happens in threes. For us this year that was true. It started with Jay losing his great grandma, then my friend's 3 yr old son dies, and on Wednesday my uncle died. Like Jay, I am upst with the fact that the funeral is tomorrow, and I will not be able to be there for my family. I think what makes it harder on me is I just say my uncle in Sept when my sister was married. He seemed to be doing just fine. I am hoping this move will be a good one for us. I am very grateful to have found Jay. He is following me to Indiana because he knows family is important, and he wants to see me thru this. The bad thing about our move is that we will not be able to see Kye every weekend. For that I am very sad. I also do not want Jay to resent me for taking him away from his son. He tells me that everything will be fine. That we will see Kye in the summers, but i remember what it was like for him when he wasn't able to see Kye for 6 months. I would never come between a father and his son. Especailly Jay and Kye because you can see the love they have for each other. I am going to miss Kye so much. Everytime he is around me he brightens my day. Kye is the main reason I am going to miss Arizona. People say that children are the best therapy. I have to agree with that statement. No matter how bad of a day I am having Kye was always make me better by just being around. When I first moved to Arizona I was a mess, and I think if it had not been for my nieces and nephews around me (everyday for the first 6 months of me bein here) I do not think I would have been able to pull myself back together as wel as I have. Just like today, after having a bad couple of days, when Kye came in the house I felt alot better. I don't know about anyone else but children make me realize how much sweetness there is in the world still. The good thing about the move is I will be there to watch my new nephew grow up. He is turning one April 5th. That is the day our train arrives. I will be able to stop in and see my nephew have his first birthday. My sister and I never really got along very well. After she had my nephew, she and I have gotten along so much better. She tries harder on our relationship. She wants me to be there for him, and that means the world to me. I am hoping that this move will a temporary thing. I do not want to live in Indiana for the rest of my life. I have worked really hard to make it as far as I have, and I do not want to be sucked back into a small town life again. I have come from a "trailer trash" girl to someone who knows what she wants out of life, and working hard to get it. Well, if you have read this I have just wasted precious minutes of your day. Thank you for bearing with me . Have fun with the rest of your day.
hi peeps, Jay and brandy here.. Ok, So the deal is that we are moving ina few days. Now for everyone that knows us, u already no this. For everyone else, we are moving. Now to tell u the truth. I'm (Jay) not really looking forword to the move. I mean I have really started to like it here in Az. But we are moving back to Indiana on the 2nd of April. To everyone that we talk to on here ( Thats about 55 people) we love u all. Don't worry we will still be coming on this site (CUMMING as well lol). It is just going to take us a bit to get Internet hooked back up and everything. but don't worry we are not leaving this site, we love everyone on here to much just to leave. but anyway everyone have a good day.
Let's just keep it simple. I'm a lonely married man in seach of a lonely Married woman in the Roswell/Artesia/Ruidoso/Carlsbad area. Let's dicusss matters, circumstances and our situations. I have no intentions of divorce, or leaving my situation. If you understand, marvelous, if not, so be it. I thank you for your visit to my page here. This is the first day in here, so I shall search around and see what it's all about. Thank you again for your visit. I'll add more as time continues and I see fit. :) DChrisW
Disturbed-Prayer Another dream that will never come true Just to compliment your sorrow Another life that I've taken from you A gift to add on to your pain and suffering Another truth you can never believe Has crippled you completely All the cries you're beginning to hear Trapped in your mind, and the sound is deafening Let me enlighten you This is the way I pray [Chorus] Living just isn't hard enough Burn me alive, inside Living my life's not hard enough Take everything away Another nightmare about to come true Will manifest tomorrow Another love that I've taken from you Lost in time, on the edge of suffering Another taste of the evil I breed Will level you completely Bring to life everything that you fear Live in the dark, and the world is threatening Let me enlighten you This is the way i pray [chorus] Return to me Leave me no one Turn to me Return to me Cast aside You've made me turn away
Hello Ladies, I am a SWM 38 5'11", 145 lbs., Blond Hair and Blue Eyes and I have a panty wearing fetish . I feel the only way this can be corrected is with a lil humiliation by a Dominant Woman (18+), to include but not limited to OTK Spanking, Mouth Soaping, Corner Time, Enema's, and Forced Feminization infront of Women. If you live in the Western United States or plan to Visit Las Vegas, NV and you are interested in the please Post a Reply to this entry, or send me a message here or to my eMail pantyboyjeffy@yahoo.com . I am not interested in submitting to men so guys don't bother!
Well, OohYa has come a long way since we launched in September.
The site has a whole new look, we've added more features such as videos, groups, and the new profile commenting system, and are now over 12,000 registered members.
So what is in store for the near future for OohYa?
For starters we should be moving to a new upgraded server sometime this week, this should improve the sites performance quite a bit.
As soon as we get settled on the new server we'll be updating chat to a new version. The new version should address webcam stability issues and eliminate many of the webcam issues we've been having. A few bugs should be fixed in the new version as well.
Hopefully in the near future we will work out the bugs in the profile search as well. This is actually one of my biggest priorities and may have a fix for it within the next couple of weeks. The 2 main bugs in it as many of you know is the fact that if you get more than 1 page of results the next page shows 0 results, and the fact that if you click a profile from the search results and click "back" you get a page not found error. These errors irritate me to no end and can't wait till they are fixed.
I've also made some changes to the site to hopefully regain some of our lost positions in the search engines. There must have been something with the site redesign that the search engines didn't like as we dropped quite a bit in the search results shortly after. One key thing that I've added is the link exchange section that allows other webmasters to exchange links with us. If you own a website and would like to exchange links with OohYa click on the "Link To OohYa" button in the main menu on the left hand side of the site and link away. You can also embed the OohYa Chat client in you website, myspace, or friendster profiles as well, you can get more information on how to embed chat on the front page of OohYa. Even a simple link from your Myspace, Friendster, Facebook, or Yahoo profile is appreciated.
Another thing I've done to try and get a little search engine juice is submitted OohYa to the dmoz directory. However, dmoz is ran by arrogant self righteous punks that don't seem to like OohYa enough to list it in their directory so they can burn in hell. They seem to like sites like chat-avenue and usachatnow better than us and I can see why, who wouldn't choose a site with a barely functional text chat with no profiles or any other features over OohYa? Yes I'm a little bitter.
So what is on my wish list for the longer term future?
I would really like to get the ability for users to create their own public or private rooms again, however we can't even fill just one of the current rooms yet so this one isn't too big of a priority yet.
I would like to redesign the chat room list into a category branch down structure to make it easier to browse. Again, not such a big deal yet but when we add the US state rooms back in and get the user created rooms back it will be a huge deal.
I would like to add a little more customization to the profiles to let users change things like backgrounds, colors, and to maybe add some widgets.
I also plan on eventually integrating flash based games into the chat applet such as pool, chess, card games, ect. that members can play with each other.
Anyway, that's pretty much where we are, where we're going, and where I hope to go. Let me know what you guys think and if you have any other suggestions.
Guess what im typing another blog WOW huh...Anyway, ive come to notice on this site that ppl are real in many ways. Yet, some are as fake as plastic surgery. I have met some of the most amazing ppl on this site, which have became close friends. I enjoy making a person smile on a daily basis. I go out of my way to help anyone who needs it. Im not a person who really judges ppl. I believe they have there own judgement so why waste my own time, for something I wasnt put here for. I believe that I was put here for many reasons. And showing ppl that there is still caring, loving individuals out there who are real, means alot to me...It makes me smile to see others happy, showing them that someone cares for them, even a complete stranger. If you just take a little time to notice this. I hope everyone had a great easter, and I cant wait to see all you soon. Denise....A.K.A. tdavisgirl24....
Today is a Bad day for me (Jay). My Great Grandma passed away today. I don't understand how to feel. I mean, i am upset and sad, but as alot of u all no Brandy and I are moving on April 2nd. We won't be in Indiana till the 5th, and she passed today. I have not seen my Great Grandma in two years. I was looking forward to seeing her and introducing Brandy to her. I am just not sure how to feel. Like i said, i am very upset and sad, but all the other things that i just talked about are running through my mind at 1000 miles a minute. I just don't no what to do, I mean i don't have the money to get there now and go to the furneral and like i said i haven't seen her in two years. It really brakes my heart not to have seen her before she died and now i am not going to be able to go to her fureral and be with my family in this time of need. Let me ask everyone that may read this. How would u feel? How would u take the fact that u would not be able to be there with ur family? What should I be feeling? How should I be taking this right now? How would all u out there reading this be feeling? Please if u read this do not hesitate to comment.
I have no fuckin clue what's wrong with people lately. All i here is how much of an ASS HOLE I am. it seems like yesterday i was well liked here *laughs* Well...... I guess in truth I'm not. I guess the days of folks being themselves is long past and dead. Well... that's cool ya'll go ahead and keep misunderstanding me and taking everything I say and do worong it's all fuckin gravy. Since when is it worng to crack jokes to cure Boredom? Since when is it wrong to be straight forward and give my honest blunt opinion. I'm sorry people I refuse to lie, I tell it like it is always. I will never ever sugarcoat any fuckin thing. Ya'll don't wanna here what I have to say that's cool ignore me it's that simple. It's easy I've been ignored plenty throughout my life it wouldn't be the first time and it sure as hell won't be the last.
So Jay and I went to go see "Doomsday" today with our friend. So we get there...watch the previews...get maybe 10 min into the movie, and the damn thing starts playing classical music (I think it was Bach). So we decide to take the free tickets to see the show again at a later time. We go back to the theater to watch the movie, an lo and behold, we get maye 5 min into the movie....and it did the same thing. Well, we stayed and watched the movie...no way in hell i wanted to try a third time. So we have free movie passes for any movie we want. The manager gave me a dirty look cause when he handed me my ticket...i grab it from his hand like it was chocolate...and I said its bullshit to have it happen AGAIN. That they needed to learn to fix their shit...
I heard about oohya on yahoo and decided to try it to escape the bots. Looks like, however, I escaped all of humanity. There doesn't seem to be anybody here. I'm 56, 5'6", 250 lbs, DDF, educated, and would like to have some sultry, if not downright erotic, conversation with a woman who enjoys being naughty. At least on yahoo, I can chat.
I heard about oohya on yahoo and decided to try it to escape the bots. Looks like, however, I escaped all of humanity. There doesn't seem to be anybody here. I'm 56, 5'6", 250 lbs, DDF, educated, and would like to have some sultry, if not downright erotic, conversation with a woman who enjoys being naughty. At least on yahoo, I can chat.
I'm new here, but I've seen a lot of references to this site. I just finalized a divorce and trying to get back into things again. I haven't added photos here yet, but due to by involvement in the community, not sure I will actually "published" them. I do, however, have photos on my chat window and will swap photos upon request. I am 5'11", 175 lbs, 7" and physically fit. Okay, maybe the 7" is pretty average and wasn't necessary, but why not if women can describe their bust size, of which, by the way, I love! I am physically fit and I enjoy working out. Unlike a lot of guys my age, I am HWP, still have a 32 inch waist and no gut! Like most guys, I'm a boobman, but unlike many guys, I also like breast implants. Implants are not necessary, but I do like nice boobs. I am also DDF and very open-minded and have even had experiences with open-minded couples and pre-op TS/TGs. Although I'm in the Dallas area, I travel a lot, both domestically and internationally. I enjoy chatting on Yahoo and getting to know people. I have had a couple people concerned over my Yahoo profile interests. The interest list shows those that range from actual experience to casual curiosity. Feel free to ask me anything about them. I enjoy chatting on Yahoo Messenger under the same name and will try this site now. I am interested in meeting new friends (females or open-minded couples).
Wow...supposed to be on the pc looking for a job. looks like that going well. Super Duper lame. Its snowed about 4 inches today and I am horny and alone. Thats it.
I know I can sound a bit over the top, but i'm really a big softy. You think i'm an angry lunatic, but I'm really a down to earth guy. You think I'm a big asshole, but I'm really a gentle soul who has real feelings and compassion for all my friends. you think it's all about me me me, but in truth it's all about you you you. You think i'm a violent Psychopath, but i'm just a shattered soul who's heart has been crushed 1000 times over. You think your life is so full of drama and chaos but in truth mine is and always has been much much worse. You always cry about your mommy and daddy telling you what to do and having too much structure, but my mommy and daddy were truely Satan in human form. you think your life sucks, i'll trade places with any of you any day of the week. If you were in my shoes you'd be in prison or dead in a week. I'll trade your past for mine in a heartbeat. You foolish children know not what it means to be truly terrified, to be truly tortured, to be truely abused, to be truly close to death at your father's hands. You have families who love you, I was discarded like Diseased Vermin. My rage deep inside knows no master, it knows no mercy, it has no limitations, only one thing calms this terrifying Dragon. And that's the Dragon itself and his pure heart and his lovely merciful soul. You cannot hide your real faces from me for i see into the darkest depths of your souls, i know who's truly pure of heart and whos is full of wickedness. I am an emotional Vampire i feet on your Raw powerful emotion. I absorb your pain, your sorrw, you torment, your anger and rage like a batery and when finished throw it back at you 1000-fold. I have embraced and beaten the Darkness called my past, but it has also fulled me and gave me a tremendous strength, wisdom and courage to help those who are innocent, to help those who are damned and have been in torment. I weep for those who have suffered as I have and protect those who are full of love and respect fo this most damaged soul. why? Because I have been accepted and welcomed into your fold and your heart. So i reward you with my devotion, attention, wisdom, strength, and straight forward attitude. I show respect for those who give it, i love those who love, I share myself with those who share, I help and give to those who need it. So you still think you know SHADOWGAUGE??? I think not, but fret not because i welcome you to get to know me, as i want to get to know all of you.
You all know who I'm talking about. I'm talking about the idiots who make an account cause they are bored and have no lives, and then they venture to The Adult Cam Room just so they can harass the ladies into flashing for them, or doing a cam show for them, or pulling out thier nasty wrinkly pricks to Brick on Camaera for them. All I gotta say is you sick fucks need a new fuckin hobby get a fuckin life LOSERS. Yeah I'm talking to you BATISTA and all the Moronic Idiots like you. Go back to the Yahoo chatrooms and hang out with all the Pethitic Booters and Bots and Cam Whores. And here's a message for all you stupid little kids aka Teenagers who keep going in where you shouldn't be. STAY THE FUCK OUT OF THE ADULT CAM ROOM DON'T MAKE ME TELL YOUR DUMB ASSES TWICE. I swear to fuckin god if you get somebidy thrown in prison for being stupid and asking you to flash them and shit that's on your dumb asses QUIT TRYING TO PULL THE WHOLE "TO CATCH A PREDATOR" CRAP, YOU KNOW YOU'R DUMB ASSES DESERVE WHATEVER HAPPENS TO YOU IN THOSE KINDS OF PLACES CAUSE YOUR RETARDED ENOUGH TO DWELL THERE TO BEGIN WITH. And to you sick fucks who hit on the Teenagers you deserve to be shot and stabbed a million times and fed to stray dogs if you hit on Teens and ask them to flash you or do e webcam show for ya. Leave the fuckin kids alone you stupid fucks. All you stupid kids need to go back to myspace and fuckin stay there. Sorry if I'm so angry about this stuff but since I became a member all I see are Dumb ass folks who show very little to no respect when it comes to females on OohYa Chat. it's getting old so knock it the Fuck off People!!!! -SHADOWGAUGE
(Thursday, 28 February 2008) Written by shadowgauge
So basically I'm new well I've only been on here for about a week now ans I have been fully utilizing this site and all the cool features such as The Blogs, Posting Videos Ect. because I really want to help contribute so this site is more entertaining for everyone, but come on my friends I can't do it all by myself here lol We should all contribute to make this site much more fun for everyone especially those who have yet to join in on all our fun yes I'm speaking for the Prospects you know the ones who are just silent faces passing through to see what we are all up to here on OohYa chat. Come on people there is more to life than hanging in just 1 Chat room all the time hoping to see some boobs this is our online home away from home Out community away from the real world it's our duty to make this place as awesome as humanly possible. So come on my friends post those videos write some blogs upload those photos and have a blast, take advantage of the fact this place is still so damned new, and not main stream yet. Your friend til the end, -SHADOWGAUGE
(Wednesday, 27 February 2008) Written by shadowgauge
Why is it that every time A man or a woman want to start over and are happy with their new respective partners the Ex's end up being all pissy and childish and just straight up Psycho about it and try to break you up so they can have you back???(at least in their Dillusional Minds) These questions have plagued me for Years. All you Pathetically stupid Ex's of men and women everywhere need to move the fuck on and quit with the pathetic mind games. Just because you an unhappy Loser Emo doesn't give you the right to piss in your Ex's cereal. if you don't like the fact they've moved on and are happy, go fucking kill yourself and end your pathetic existence on this planet nobody will give a flying fuck if your gone, why???? Well fucking Duuuuhhhh because they moved on and are fucking happy without you, you Stupid Dumbass. Grow a fucking pair and grow the fuck up you fucking kids there is more to life than dwelling on an old flame who don't want your Dumbass anymore. And if you got kids and are trying to use them as fuckin weapons against your Ex's to try to break them up with their current partner then you are the lowliest of lifeforms and must be shot the fuck up on site, that is fucked up and just plain wrong. And if you don't like what I'm saying don't fucking read this, I don't give a fuck but enough is a fuckin 'nuf move the fuck on you fuckin Ex's -GAUGE
I joined ooh ya a couple of weeks ago. And since I've been here I've met some very cool people. I think we all get togethr just about every night. i'm glad I discovered this place. Y'all rock. U know who u r... out.
Lyrics By: HollyWood Undead Dear Diary, Mood: Apathetic My life is spiraling downward I couldn’t get enough money to go to the Blood Red romance andsuffocate me dry concert It sucks because they play some of my favorite songs like, Stab My Heart because I Love You and Rip Apart My Soul and of course Stabby, Rip, Stab, Stab And it doesn’t help that I couldn’t get my hair to flippy thing either, like that guy from that band could do. Somedays. I’m an emo kid, non-confroming as can be you’d be non-conforming to if you looked just like me I have paint on my nails and makeup on my face I’m almost emo enough to start shaving my legs, cause I feel real deep when I’m dressing in drag I call it freedom of expression, most just call me a fag Cause our dudes look like chicks and our chicks look like dikes Cause emo is one step below tranvestite Stop my breathing and slit my throat I must be emo I don’t jump around when I go to shows I must be emo I’m dark, and sensitive with low self esteem The way I dress makes everyday feel like Halloween I have no real problems but I like to make believe I stole my sisters mascara and now I’m grounded for a week Sulking and writing poetry are my hobbies I can’t get through a Hawthorne Heights album without sobbing Girls keep breaking up with me It’s never any fun they say they already have a pussy They don’t need another one Stop my breathing and slit my throat I must be emo I don’t jump around when I go to shows I must be emo Dye in my hair nail polish on my toes I must be emo I play guitar and write suicide notes I must be emo My life is just a black abyss You know? It’s so dark And its suffocating me Grabbing a hold of me and tightening its grip Tighter than a pair of my little sisters jeans. Which look great on me, by the way When I get depressed I cut my wrists in every direction Hearing songs about getting dumped give me an erection I write in a live journal and wear thick rimmed glasses I tell my friends I bleed black and cry during classes I’m just a bad, cheap, imitation of goth You could read me Catcher In The Rye and watch me jack-off I wear skin tight clothes while hating my life If I said I like girls I’d only be half right I look like I’m dead and dress like a homo I must be emo Screw XBOX I play old school Nintendo I must be emo I like to whine and hit my parentals I must be emo Me and my friends all look like clones I must be emo My parents don’t get me , you know? They think I’m gay because they saw me kiss a guy ,well, a couple of guys But I mean, it's the 2000's, can’t two, or four dudes make out with each other without being gay? I mean chicks dig that kind of thing anyways I don’t know diary, sometimes I think you’re the only one on that gets me, You’re my best friend, I feel like tacos.
(Saturday, 23 February 2008) Written by shadowgauge
Religion was created to control us, there is no god and there is no devil. Good and Evil are a concept that man designed they are labels. what is right and wrong? what is light and Dark. the real question is what would you do if you one day realised your entire life was a sham. Wake up to the bullshit people!!! The president has no power he's a moron in a suit. All religion was created from myths and legends enscribed on walls by the ancient egyptians and many before them, all of it is astrological and all of it revolvs around the stars and the sun. 9-11 was another Sham and as sheep you chose to beliee everything the goverment fed the Media, and who controls the goverment those who print our worthless paper called the dollar bill THE BANKERS. those sillouettes behind the curtain pulling all the strings. the goverment is there puppets the Bankers fund all the wars an empower both sides to kill eachother and for what A BUCK. why because they can. He who makes the money controls the world. Did you know Bush is trying to pass a bill to tear down all our Borders and Unite Canada, Mexico and the United states? Did you know he plans on getting rid of our money and replacing out currency with something totally new. when this happens the new country will be renamed It will no longer be america so everything ever created law wise for this country will be abolished. the bill of rights, the Preamble, And namely The Constitution. He has been in talks with Mexico and Canada over the years. The asain counries and the african governments are also planning to do something very similar. Meanwhile The Tv and all it shows, the videogames the bullshit is all a distraction to keep us from seeing the big picture. Sorry I'm blabbing but if you all wanna know the real shit going on in your world and in your country. Go to the link I posted below it will enlighten you and it will shock you and it may even make you stand up and say I can't believe this shit, my life's been one big lie. Please people you must see this site and what the documentory has to ofer to you it will free your mind. http://zeitgeistmovie.com/
